Why I called off my wedding
US Weekly has the most unnecessary article title for those who have watched any of The Hills on MTV.

Um, maybe because Spencer is a complete tool? Maybe it was his beady soulless eyes and insincere smile?

Maybe it was because of how in every facial tick, every move he makes, in every argument you have, it's obvious that he despises you? Is it because of how he mocks you in that one voice in every conversation you have? Was it because he spent less than 30 seconds shopping for your ugly engagement ring? Was it because he's obviously and disturbingly in love with his sister, who doesn't love him back (who would?) but will be a controlling influence and destroy the life of any woman Spencer is ever with?
Heidi at least once had a soul, but Beverly Hills can suck the Colorado out of anyone as evidenced in this quote about the engagement ring:
"I turned it into a pendant. It started out as more of a promise-slash-engagement ring. I don't like what it represents. I might sell it."
What a SWEETHEART! Almost makes you wish things could work out with Spencer and his sister so he wouldn't have to deal with inferior women like this.

Um, maybe because Spencer is a complete tool? Maybe it was his beady soulless eyes and insincere smile?

Maybe it was because of how in every facial tick, every move he makes, in every argument you have, it's obvious that he despises you? Is it because of how he mocks you in that one voice in every conversation you have? Was it because he spent less than 30 seconds shopping for your ugly engagement ring? Was it because he's obviously and disturbingly in love with his sister, who doesn't love him back (who would?) but will be a controlling influence and destroy the life of any woman Spencer is ever with?
Heidi at least once had a soul, but Beverly Hills can suck the Colorado out of anyone as evidenced in this quote about the engagement ring:
"I turned it into a pendant. It started out as more of a promise-slash-engagement ring. I don't like what it represents. I might sell it."
What a SWEETHEART! Almost makes you wish things could work out with Spencer and his sister so he wouldn't have to deal with inferior women like this.






"Suck the Colorado out of anyone" is now my new favorite euphemism! Thanks, Chuck!
Hope you had a Merry Christmas... I'm just catching up on the blog now.
Happy New Year, Chuck and Kelly!
Kim V.
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We're trying not to have the rural NY sucked out of us.
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She called off the wedding for the reason that she doesn't love the guy. If you love the guy, you'll have him no matter what.
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Really appreciate this post. It’s hard to sort the good from the bad sometimes, but I think you’ve nailed it!
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I feel a lot more people need to read this, very good info!
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Let me say how sorry I am to hear about your situation. I had the same thing happen to me years ago. What your feeling is completely normal; moreover, you are correct to assume that you will never get over him unless you can get away somehow. His tenderness towards you will only feed the flames of false hope. For whatever reason...he has decided to end the relationship and you have to respect that.
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Very interesting article and informative as well thanks.
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Thanks for the post. Keep the great work.
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Useful info. Hope to see more good posts in the future.
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HI,
Cheers to the author for giving me some solid ideas
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It’s hard to find knowledgeable people on this topic, but you sound like you know what you’re talking about! Thanks ..
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HI,
Interesting read, thanks for helping keep me busy at work
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